Video Briefing

Expat Money ®: How To Live Your Life Unconstrained with Myles Wakeham

Aug 2, 2021Video Briefing65:35Watch on YouTube

Financial sustainability is presented as an alternative to the standard life path of school, employment, debt, consumption, and delayed retirement. The core argument is that people should build income-producing assets, reduce dependence on jobs and banks, protect their health, and use travel and adversity to understand their own purpose.

From technology entrepreneur to financial independence

Miles Wakeham grew up in Adelaide, Australia, and left school at around 15 after deciding that much of what he was being taught did not make sense to him.

He entered the technology industry during the early personal computer era, around 1978, when demand for software developers was rapidly emerging. As a young programmer, he built software for governments, defense contractors, and major corporations.

By about 25, he had a thriving company and had written software connected to a $5 billion submarine contract in Australia.

He later moved to the United States after meeting engineers and defense-sector professionals connected to that work. Immigration initially prevented him from working, so he spent time in Los Angeles, including in music and the recording industry.

Once able to work, he joined a small biotech startup in Southern California. The company had no FDA approvals at the time and had about 150 people. It later became Amgen, grew to around 4,000 employees, and reached roughly $4 billion in annual sales. Stock options from that job made him a millionaire.

Losing wealth and rebuilding

The first major disruption came when Wakeham returned to Australia after his mother had a car accident and was later found to have dementia.

He sold his U.S. assets, moved wealth back to Australia, and returned to care for her. The move caused major personal disruption, including divorce and the loss of about half his wealth.

Soon after, he was involved in a serious car accident during a road trip in Queensland. A passenger in the car was killed, and Wakeham was left badly injured, spending about seven days in a coma and weeks in hospital.

He later faced problems with insurance coverage because the accident became connected to a legal case involving the driver. Ongoing treatment was not covered as expected, and his physical condition deteriorated.

After remarrying and having a daughter, he decided to return to the United States. A short consulting opportunity in Los Angeles coincided with the dot-com boom. He rebuilt his income through technology work and later moved to Arizona, where he began building wealth through real estate.

Within about five or six years, he became a millionaire again.

Real estate, leverage, and the 2008 crash

Wakeham built real estate holdings in multiple countries, including Australia and the United States.

Before the 2008 financial crisis, Australian property had risen sharply, partly due to the Chinese-driven resource boom. At the same time, U.S. property values later collapsed.

When the 2008 crisis hit, his net worth fell from millions to nearly nothing. Instead of selling everything, he used geographic arbitrage:

  • Australian property had increased significantly in value.
  • U.S. property had fallen sharply.
  • He sold Australian property.
  • He brought capital into the United States.
  • He paid down mortgages.
  • He bought distressed U.S. properties at low prices.

He describes buying multiple properties “like Monopoly” during the foreclosure period. By around 2013, after the properties were rented and the market recovered, he says he had about five times the wealth he had before the crash.

This experience shaped his view that assets should serve the owner, not the other way around.

Bitcoin and cross-border payments

Wakeham also became involved with Bitcoin early, around 2011.

He first used Bitcoin because traditional payment channels had become difficult for people or organizations he wanted to pay. Payment providers and banks had blocked some recipients, while Bitcoin allowed direct transfers.

He also used Bitcoin to pay a programmer in Bangladesh. At that time, he bought Bitcoin through Mt. Gox and later moved funds to a Hong Kong-based service that provided a debit card linked to Bitcoin holdings.

He moved his funds away from Mt. Gox shortly before the exchange collapsed.

Bitcoin’s practical value was clear to him because it allowed cross-border payments without traditional banking friction. He continued buying Bitcoin when it was much cheaper, including at prices such as around $7 and later around $150, according to the transcript.

By around 2018, he lost confidence not in Bitcoin itself, but in the behavior of people around the market. He saw greed, scams, FOMO, and poor decision-making. After making significant gains, he sold and used the proceeds to buy more real estate.

Income-producing assets instead of speculation

The central financial lesson in the transcript is that assets should pay the owner to hold them.

Wakeham distinguishes between two approaches:

  • Buying low and selling high
  • Buying assets that generate ongoing income

He argues that selling an asset ends ownership. If the asset is gone, it cannot keep producing income.

His preferred model is to own assets that produce cash flow, such as:

  • Rental real estate
  • Dividend-paying stocks
  • Other assets that generate income while still being owned

The goal is to cover one’s monthly “burn rate” through asset income.

If income-producing assets cover living expenses, the owner gains time freedom and is no longer dependent on a job.

Financial sustainability

Wakeham calls this approach financial sustainability.

The idea is not simply early retirement, but building a life where income is generated autonomously and continuously.

He is critical of the traditional path:

  • Finish school
  • Work hard
  • Get a job
  • Save money
  • Take on debt
  • Buy a house
  • Retire at 65
  • Spend later years trying to enjoy life

He argues this model is increasingly broken because of debt, medical costs, inflation, student loans, job dependence, and falling life expectancy.

His practical rule is simple: when buying an asset, ask whether it pays you to own it. If it does not generate income, it may be consumption or speculation rather than sustainability.

Critique of debt and consumption

The transcript criticizes consumer culture and debt-driven lifestyles.

Many people spend money to fill an emotional or purpose-related void. This can include:

  • Bigger houses
  • Cars they do not need
  • Luxury goods
  • Boats
  • Watches
  • Clothes
  • Status purchases

These purchases may create a temporary emotional reward but do not solve the deeper problem of lacking purpose.

Debt then traps people further. Credit card bills, mortgages, student loans, and lifestyle costs can force them to remain in jobs they dislike.

Wakeham describes the mortgage system as a “death contract” and argues that banks benefit from keeping people financially dependent.

The importance of “why”

A major theme is the need to understand personal purpose.

Wakeham argues that many people choose careers without knowing why they are doing it. They may become doctors, accountants, engineers, or employees because those are presented as acceptable paths, not because they reflect personal calling.

He criticizes the education system for failing to help people answer core questions:

  • Why am I doing this?
  • What makes me happy?
  • What is my purpose?
  • What kind of life do I actually want?
  • What work would I do even if I did not need to escape it?

He argues that many young people are pushed into student debt before they understand themselves. In the United States, an 18-year-old may be expected to sign for large student loans before being mature enough to understand the long-term consequences.

Travel as self-discovery

Travel is presented as a way to discover personal identity and build resilience.

Wakeham says people should put themselves in unfamiliar situations where they do not speak the language and must adapt. This can force self-reliance and help reveal who they are.

The discussion frames travel not as tourism, but as a form of character development.

Difficult situations can build:

  • Adaptability
  • Confidence
  • Self-knowledge
  • Resourcefulness
  • Resilience
  • Independence

The transcript argues that people often learn more from adversity than from easy success.

Experiences over possessions

The discussion contrasts spending on possessions with spending on experiences.

Experiences such as travel, food, museums, cultural exploration, historical sites, and family time are presented as more meaningful than status purchases.

The argument is that a luxury item may create a short-term emotional high, but the value often fades quickly. Experiences can shape identity, deepen understanding, and create lasting memory.

Travel also exposes people to different cultures and ways of living, which may challenge assumptions about money, health, family, and community.

Latin America, family, and community

Latin American culture is discussed as an example of a more family-oriented and community-centered lifestyle.

Wakeham speaks positively about Mexico after traveling there for medical treatment. He describes a culture where family, trust, hospitality, and personal care are more visible than in many parts of the United States.

The discussion also mentions Panama and Brazil as examples where family and community life can feel more integrated.

Key observations include:

  • Families gathering across generations
  • Strong birthday and social traditions
  • Public parks used for community life
  • Music, food, and group celebrations
  • Expat inclusion in local life
  • Less emphasis on “keeping up with the Joneses”

The transcript contrasts this with more individualistic or status-driven cultures.

Medical tourism and health arbitrage

Medical tourism is presented as a practical example of geographic arbitrage.

Wakeham says he traveled to Mexico in 2019 for major surgery to correct injuries from his earlier car accident. He says the procedure cost around $9,000, compared with a U.S. quote of over $150,000.

He describes the experience positively and says the private health care system in Mexico served him well.

The broader point is that people should not assume their domestic system is the only option. For elective or planned procedures, medical tourism can provide a way to access care at a much lower cost.

The transcript divides health care into three categories:

  • Preventive care, such as food, exercise, vitamins, and lifestyle
  • Elective care, such as treating a bad hip, knee, back, or other ongoing issue
  • Emergency care, such as unexpected accidents or acute medical events

The U.S. system is described as being focused heavily on emergencies, while many people delay preventive and elective care because of cost, insurance limits, job constraints, or fear of bankruptcy.

Declining life expectancy

The transcript cites U.S. male life expectancy as a warning sign.

Figures mentioned include:

  • Around 79.3 years in 2016
  • Around 76.5 years in 2019
  • Around 75.3 years in 2020

The point made is that U.S. male life expectancy was declining before COVID and continued downward. Wakeham argues that people should not assume they will have decades of healthy retirement after age 65.

If someone waits until traditional retirement age to begin traveling or pursuing dreams, they may have too little healthy time left.

The practical message is to act earlier and prioritize health, mobility, and purpose while still physically able.

Health, purpose, and finances

Wakeham frames a sustainable life around three pillars:

  • Health
  • Purpose
  • Finances

If one is missing, the others are weakened.

Money matters, but it should not define the person. It should support health and purpose.

A person who has income-producing assets but no health may not enjoy life. A person with health but no financial independence may remain trapped in work. A person with money and health but no purpose may still feel empty.

The goal is to build all three together.

Critique of FIRE

The transcript discusses the FIRE movement, or financial independence, retire early.

Wakeham agrees with the desire for freedom but dislikes the framing around retirement. He says he does not want to retire because he does not want to stop doing meaningful work.

The problem is not work itself, but being trapped in work one dislikes.

He also criticizes the assumption that long bull markets will continue indefinitely. People saving aggressively into portfolios may assume markets will keep rising, but cycles can change.

His alternative is to focus on assets that produce income regardless of whether the owner plans to “retire.”

Practical principles

The transcript suggests several practical principles:

  • Do not let school, debt, or career expectations define your life.
  • Ask why before choosing work, investments, or lifestyle.
  • Use travel to develop independence and self-knowledge.
  • Spend on experiences and personal growth rather than status consumption.
  • Build income-producing assets.
  • Avoid relying entirely on buying low and selling high.
  • Reduce dependence on banks and debt.
  • Use geographic arbitrage for health care, cost of living, and investment opportunities.
  • Treat health as a central asset, not an afterthought.
  • Do not delay meaningful life experiences until old age.
  • Build a life around health, purpose, and financial sustainability.

The practical takeaway is that financial freedom is not only about accumulating a large number. It is about owning assets that pay you, knowing why you are building wealth, protecting your health, and designing a life that is not dependent on jobs, banks, debt, or delayed retirement.